Assurance or Priority?

by Marian Indol Molina | shared on He Said, She Said |

Alam ko na narinig mo na ang linya na…

Wala babaeng pinangarap na maging kabit? Then get out? Ika nga ni Bea at John Lloyd sa pelikulang The Mistress.

Pero bakit nga ba ganun madami pa ring babae ang nagiging assurance after maging kabit?

Eh ano nga ba ang Assurance (and thats how I called it) how do you define assurance from kabit?

Simple lang DATI pumapayag ka na maging kahati sa oras at panahon niya.

Dahil akala mo basta masaya kahit mali eh tama na pero ngayon natauhan ka na humiwalay at tumigil na sa kahibangang dulot niya PERO (capslock lahat para tagos) pumapayag pa rin na maging assurance niya.

Assurance that he’s still in the game na kapag mag-isa na lang siya at tulog na yung babaeng pinili niya, kapag magulo sila at namimiss ka niya (eventually kahit itanggi pa nila e namimiss ka pa rin nila).

Ikaw naman ang maalala niya dahil ikaw ang assurance niya.

Hindi Priority ah, but only an Assurance. Puwede din na second choice or kung minalas pa third choice sa listahan ng phonebook niya kapag wala na siyang mahagilap pa.

When everything fails and crumbles he still has YOU aside from his priorities and list of assurances in his life.

He still hangs on with that someone who is willing to listen, willing to accept him, willing to give him the attention that he needs na hindi maibigay ng Priority niya hahanapin ka niya, guguluhin, at kukulitin.

Why do you let yourself be an Assurance? Hindi ka nabuhay at nabubuhay to be in this place. You have your choices, we all have.

So tanungin kita why not get out? Kuntento ka na ba sa konting oras na naibibigay niya? sa konting atensyon, sa konting lambing (throwback pa yan ng magagandang memories para makuha lang ang attention mo).

Dont be blinded by broken Promises you’d been there babalikan mo pa rin ba?

Or maybe, why not this time choose to be the PRIORITY, not number 3 or 4 but number 1? Not an assurance that he would run to if he needed extra care and attention. Di ba mas magaan sa loob at mas magandang pakinggan and most all, it is the most upright and best decision you can do for yourself ? Think about it.


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