Advice Column

Her Ex and Her Whys

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from message sender “Calli” | (We at He Said She Said change the actual names and places and edit some parts of the message, to protect the identity of our message senders.) Hi Guys, I can’t seem go on with my life since our break-up. Hindi pa rin ako nakakamove-on sa ex ko. Sadly, may girlfriend na siya ngayon. And I’m ...

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“Hopya” ka na naman ba? [Still hoping for a second chance?]

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from message sender “Weng” | (We at He Said She Said change the actual names and places and edit some parts of the message, to protect the identity of our message senders.) Tito Homer & Tita Jinky, Gusto ko po sana ihingi ng payo ‘tong sitwasyon ko ngayon. Last year po nakipagbreak sa akin ang BF for 8 years dahil di daw po ...

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Nagbabalik: Tatanggapin ko pa ba siya?

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by DD | shared on He Said, She Said | Hello po. This letter was made almost a year ago when he left us. Yes, we almost built a family but in a snap and without any explanation he left us for another girl. I suffered everyday bearing all the pain and asking why. Salamat sa magagandang alaala, salamat dahil sobra ...

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LDR Blues

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from message sender “Bessy” | (We at He Said She Said change the actual names and places and edit some parts of the message, to protect the identity of our message senders.) Hi Tita Jinky and Tito Homer, I have a “relationship concern”. Yes I won’t call it a problem because it’s not yet a problem. The thing is, my ex ...

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Ikaw na nga ba?

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from message sender “Faye” | (We at He Said She Said change the actual names and places and edit some parts of the message, to protect the identity of our message senders.) Hi po. Gusto ko lang po sanang humingi ng advise. May nanliligaw po sa ‘kin kakauwi lang from Singapore. Last April 2016 ko po siya nakilala through chat because friend ...

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Can Love conquer a conflict in religion?

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from message sender “Trina” | (We at He Said She Said change the actual names and places and edit some parts of the message, to protect the identity of our message senders.) Hi good afternoon. I really like your page. Andaming may kailangan ng ganitong page and I think isa na ako dun. There was this boy, he’s my crush since ...

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How do I get out of an abusive relationship?

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from message sender “Sandy” | (We at He Said She Said change the actual names and places and edit some parts of the message, to protect the identity of our message senders.) Hello there, guys! I really like your page as it’s very informative and so beneficial from someone like me who’s suffering from an abusive relationship and seeking advice. I really hope that you can share ...

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Are you in a one-sided relationship?

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From message sender “Lani” | I just need some advice from you guys. Wala lang kasi ako masabihan ng mga ganitong situation. (I have no one to tell about my situation.) I  have a boyfriend and we have a child. We are not married. I learned that when I was 5 months pregnant with our child, he had another girlfriend who was ...

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We just broke up: How do I pick up the pieces again?

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From message sender “Jessie” | Hi there. I need some advice. My boyfriend and we just broke up. We have been together for almost one and a half years. I really don’t know how to move forward with my life. I just can’t. I don’t know what to do anymore as I feel so broken. It’s hard to forget him everytime someone ...

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Closure: Can you have it without asking your ex?

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From message sender “Athena” | I just want to know what can I do to have closure without talking or asking closure from someone? He Said: Hi Athena, thanks for your message. There are really different types of situations that needs closure. They may be lost loves, those that didn’t conclude well, or even friendships that have ended. In these cases, ...

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