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Is your relationship in Crisis?

Is your relationship in Crisis?

Is your relationship in Crisis? All relationships go through some form of crisis once in awhile. It’s never bullet-proof. Sometimes, the enemy is from within your circle, or even within yourself. So if you’re going through one right now, or one of your friends is, here’s what to do: — He Said: Relationships are heart-centered. And when this concerns that ...

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Regular Dates: Because your relationship is a priority

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It’s a payday weekend. There’s gotta be a Date Night. Because people in the right relationship never stop showing how much they love each other. He Said/She Said: Some look at going on dates — especially when you’re already married — too cheesy. Our take? Of course not. It adds spice to the relationship. In fact, the more you continue ...

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Will you change anything in your past?

From a Facebook post on Sept. 28, 2016

If you have the chance to change anything in your past, what would that be? Would you want to change anything at all? He Said: Life’s a series of ups and downs. It’s a combination of happiness and sadness. Admittedly, there were many times I had thought of the possibility of time travel simply because I wanted to change somethings ...

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Spread good vibes today

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Share some love, happiness and good vibes today. It’s a cycle. It will all come back you. Not many take having and spreading good vibes seriously. So why should you? Laughter is the best medicine. It increases the production of good and happy hormones that fight stress and diseases and keeps you looking young and healthy. The best effect of ...

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Bitter ka ba o Better na?

Bitter ka ba o Better na?

Feel bitter about someone or something that pains you so much it cripples you? Life’s like that. It throws us many challenges to toughen us up. Remember, the pain you feel today will be the strength you feel tomorrow. — Feel like sharing this with someone you care about? — He Said: No one said that life was all sweet, ...

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Marriage is a lifetime commitment

Marriage is a lifetime commitment

Have you found The One? Marriage is a lifetime commitment. It’s not just about “getting married” and changing your FB status. Pray hard for wisdom and discernment even before you pop the question or say “yes.” He Said: I’ve seen many marriages fail for many reasons — including trivial ones. I’ve also seen a greater number of successful and enduring ...

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Negativity hurts relationships. Stay away from negative people.

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Seemingly solid relationships are rocked by many factors. Hidden in plain sight are a lot of negativity. They build up over time and before you know it, your relationship crashes. What to do? — He Said: Relationships easily fall because of negativity. The first thing to watch out for are negative people. They plant seeds of contempt in your relationship/s ...

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Do you listen?

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Do you listen? This is one thing that many people in relationships fail to do. He Said: Have you experienced going to lunch or dinner with everyone else looking at his/her cellphone instead of engaging each other in meaningful conversation? One time, in a dinner with friends, one of our friends — a popular lady DJ — confiscated all our ...

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Career or Love?

Career or Love?

Do you really need to choose between a career and a love life? Reality strikes when you least expect it. When faced with hard choices, we need to step back a little, think, weigh, then decide. But which is the right one? He Said: Recently, I asked a female associate to make a hard choice. It was not to choose ...

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Love Needs Expression

Love Needs Expression

“So I’ve Learned That Love’s Not Possession. And I’ve Learned That Love Won’t Wait. Now I’ve Learned That Love Needs Expression. But I Learned Too Late.” – Michael Jackson (“She’s Out of My Life”) He Said: In our 25 years of marriage, plus the 4.5 years of going steady, I have learned that love is two-way — it’s giving-and-receiving. We ...

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