from message sender “Trina” |
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Hi good afternoon. I really like your page. Andaming may kailangan ng ganitong page and I think isa na ako dun.
There was this boy, he’s my crush since August and nung October, I found out that he likes me too. Nanligaw siya. And I’m sure he and I were happy. Alam kong seryoso siya kasi iniiyakan niya yung mga problema na meron kami and he’s very passionate with me. Parang napaka-fragile ko para sa kanya.
Gusto nya lagi syang updated sa buhay ko and ako naman, na-fall na talaga sa kanya. I was there for him always. Anytime, kahit saan.
Tuwing uwian lang kami nagkakasama kasi he’s a senior and junior pa lang ako so our schedule is different but kahit mga isa or dalawang oras lang kami magkasama bago the day ends, I’m sure masaya talaga kami.
But then, last week lang, he said he’s not yet ready for the next level. Siya yung nanliligaw tapos siya pa magsasabi nun kaya nasaktan ako. Nagalit ako pero hindi ko siya sinumbatan. I asked nicely. Sabi niya, conflict sa religion. Yes, Catholic siya and INC naman ako. I find it very light as a reason. Hindi ko matanggap. Hindi kasi yun sapat for me kasi alam naman niya simula una na magkaiba kami ng religion.
Sabi niya mag-uusap kami but we didn’t have time to talk.
Ngayong Christmas vacation na and I find it very hard to reach him.
Nag-message ako na gusto ko ng maliwanag na reason kasi nahihirapan na ako. He’s my first love pala hahaha pero sineryoso ko na agad. Di sya nagrereply, kahit seen wala. Parang iniiwasan nya ako.
Ang sakit. Hindi ko alam gagawin ko. Last time na magkasama kami sobrang okay namin but I didn’t know what happen. Please help me. Sasagutin ko na sana siya before vacation but this happened.
He Said, She Said: Hello Trina. First you’re still very young. You still have a big future ahead. Second, hindi naman naging kayo. So walang dapat masaktan. Maybe it’s just that you were caught off guard and lost at the same time because you didn’t know what hit you. It’s so sudden. Just move on. Third, many are really particular about religion. We personally would want our children to be with someone with the same religion. Why? Because your belief is important to you as well as the other party. How can you have a solid foundation if you don’t have the same beliefs. In the future, how will you raise your kids with different practice in religion? Kawawa sila. Malilito. So it’s important to have the same religion and from there, build your relationship.
Then again, God is love. If you can go beyond your religion but build it on faith, then there’s something to work on. Just talk about it deeply. God bless.
Reply from “Trina”
Thank you so much! I think you’re right, he was my first so I was really caught off guard. I will just move on. Thank you again
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