LDR and Trust Issues

LDR and Trust Issues
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HeSaidSheSaidPH.com | I have a trust issue. Hindi ako takot na lokohin ako. Ang mas kinakatakutan ko yung makalimutan ko sarili ko para sa iba.

Last 2019, I took the risk of falling for him. Loving him was my choice. He seems to be the man of God I’ve been searching for, but in the end I was wrong.

We always the visited church together and he promised in front of God he will marry me. But in a month’s time, he left me without explanation.

I saw him with another girl. The girl he really loves. I lost myself. Nagpakalayo layo ako.

Fast-forward habang na-lockdown ako sa Cavite I met someone online with the same experience as me.

Niloko din s’ya at iniwan without explanation. In the end naging kami. Nakampante akong hindi n’ya gagawin yun kasi galing s’ya sa ganun. But in the end, he CHEATED on me. 😔😔

I gave him a second chance pero inulit n’ya pa din with the same girl lang din.

LDR relationship is risky. Hindi ko pwedeng sisihin s’ya kasi alam kong nabibigay o nagagawa ng ibang babae yung dapat obligasyon ko as GF. For the last time, I gave him another chance pero nagkakasama pa din sila nung girl. Hindi ko alam kong maniniwala pa ba ako sa kanya.

Mahal ko s’ya pero hindi ko alam kung mahal n’ya ba talaga ako.😔

Recently, we broke up na din. Nalaman kong sila pa din nung babae at nahuli ko sila sa FB live na magkasama. I always ask myself if I am not enough? Bakit lagi na lang ako yung nauuna pero sa huli ako yung laging hindi pinipili.

You can share my story for others para magkaroon sila ng idea regarding sa ganitong LDR at one-sided relationship.

-Ysa (actual name witheld for privacy)

Our Advice:

Hello Ysa. Remember if a person loves you, hindi ka n’ya sasaktan o gagawa ng kahit anong bagay na ikakasira ng relasyon. Don’t rush. God will give you someone you truly deserve. Pray for it. And when the right one comes along, it will definitely be God-sent.

Tito Homer & Tita Jinky
@HeSaidSheSaidPH

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