Mambobola – Tama na. Move on na.

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Good morning po. Need some advises po. I don’t know what to do. Yung first ever ex-boyfriend ko is may girlfriend na po but he still loves me and binabalikan niya ako. He’s not happy with his new GF and he can’t be happy with herdaw because he’s more happier with me (daw). I’m his greatest ex-GF and he won’t forget me, he said. Honestly, I miss our memories. I always remember those. Everytime na nagkakasama kami lagi n’ya sinasabi sa’kin na na-mimiss n’ya daw ako. Iba daw ang happiness n’ya sa’kin. And iba yung love na ipinapadama ko sa kanya among his exes and his GF now. I’m so confused. May GF na s’ya but then hindi pa daw s’ya nakakamove-on sa’kin at mahal n’ya pa daw ako. Nagsisisi daw s’ya nung pinakawalan n’ya ako and he’s asking for a second chance but I’m not ready to love him again.

I have trust issues now. Ayoko na sa kanya. Ayoko ko nang bumalik s’ya ulit ngayon. Nangako na ako sa sarili ko and for the people around me na hindi ko na siya babalikan. I can’t even say that I’ve already moved-on because a part of me still cares. What should I do now?

-Terri

OUR REPLY:

HE SAID: Hi Terri, you are right in not letting him in again in your life. If he truly loved you, he should’ve gone back when he had the chance. Moreso, even before he got a new GF. Right now, he’s not truthful to himself, his new GF, and you. It’s as simple as that. Keep moving forward and never backward. God gave you a graceful exit. Hang on to it and God will show you what love truly is. Pray for His plans to be revealed to you in your heart, ok? With God, the best is yet to come! – Tito Homer

SHE SAID: Hi Terri. Your ex is definitely not serious about you. Why?
1. Hindi ka nya papalitan kung talagang mahal ka nya
2. Bakit ayaw nya iwanan yung current girlfriend nya at tsaka ka nya ligawan ulit?
3. Why will he tell you that he is not happy with the present at mas happy sya sayo, pero yun ang kasama nya at hindi ikaw?
4. How can you trust somebody na may girlfriend at binabalikan ang ex? So ibig sabihin pwede nya yan gawin paulit ulit, sa iba ibang babae. So syempre kung ikaw ang nasa kalagayan ng gf nya ngayon ayaw mo yung ginagawa nya. Di ba?
5. Dapat syang magsisi kasi hindi nya nakita ang value mo. So ibig sabihin nakita nya lang kasi may comparison na? O kaya binobola ka lang nya.

Guys like him are self-centered. Don’t mind him. You deserve someone better. Pray to God to bless you with the right person. Maaring hindi agad agad makikilala mo sya, but waiting for the right one is truly worth the wait. God bless 😊 – Tita Jinky

 

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