Hello Tito Homer and Tita Jinky,
Good day to both of you. I hope all is well with you po. Silent reader po ako ng page niyo. Just a year ago, I decided to end my 6 years relationship with my boyfriend because of his cheating. It was a hard decision for me to make and I almost lost myself but still I made it up to this day. Now that I’ve moved on already and trying to start a new life I bumped into this old love 8 yrs ago. He is saying na mahal niya pa din ako after all those years. Looking back it was a right love at a wrong time kasi bata pa ko nun and our age gap is almost 10 yrs. So 16 ako nun and 26 siya now I’m 26 and his 36. May anak na po siya and hindi sila kasal ng asawa niya because of religion matter and seperated sila pero nagsusustento siya. Now he wants us to continue our relationship pero hindi ko po kayang mang-agaw ng tatay sa isang anak. I told him na to stop but he is so persistent sa panliligaw. Ngayon po naguguluhan ako, nafafall na ako sa kanya pero pinipigilan ko yung sarili ko kasi alam ko pong nagkakasala ako sa Panginoon. Alam ko naman po na dapat itigil pero bakit ang hirap. I know that I deserve to be happy pero not in a way na nakakasakit ako ng iba. I felt so bad kahit na hindi ko pa naman siya sinasagot.
Tita & Tito gusto ko po maliwanagan sa kung ano ba dapat kong gawin.
-Dyan
OUR REPLY:
Hello Dyan. You already know the right thing to do. So what’s stopping you? God is faithful even if we’re not. So just wait for the right person. Yung sayo lang. Yung hindi ka matatakot. Yung magaan sa pakiramdam. Continue praying and let God reveal His plans in front of you and in your heart Bata ka pa. Choose someone na walang kahati. Maghintay. May darating. God bless!
– Tito Homer and Tita Jinky
