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I’m in a relationship with a man who is older than me. I am 22 and he is 36. We are together for more than a year.
Most of the time we are LDR because he is working as a seaman. But he’s on vacation right now.
My concern about him is mostly during our fights. He is always giving me a silent treatment, which last of days and it happened for weeks also.
It stressed me out also which makes me feel depressed too. He told me that silent treatment is his way to think clearly and he wanted me to make time to think about the issues as well. I feel like he doesn’t care a lot about my feelings everytime I open up to him. Besides, after our long fight last May.
I don’t feel comfortable to him anymore. Para bang nawalan nalang ng connection bigla, at nahihirapan na din ako iexpress ang sarili ko kasi kapag ginawa ko yun magagalit siya at ako lang mahihirapan sa kakasuyo sakanya. Lagi po talaga akong sumusuyo sa kanya. Lagi niya akong bine blame sa tuwing nag aaway kami without hearing sorry on his part also because he hurt me.
Lately, kung ano nalang masasakit na salita ang narinig ko sakanya dahil sa maliit na bagay na kinainit ng ulo niya. 2 days na po kaming hindi ulit nag uusap, again palagi pong ganun. Nahihirapan na po ako at di na alam ang gagawin.
Gusto ko na sumuko pero ayaw ko naman po na may panghinayangan sa huli. Yun lang po story ko. Salamat!
Hello Sarah. Let me ask you, are you willing to spend the rest of your life with a person with that kind of attitude? Can you always be the peacemaker? Are you okay with not being heard every time you have an argument? A relationship should be two way. Bigayan. There should be love, respect, understanding, trust and a lot more. Loving someone should give you the feeling of ease, happiness, joy. Dapat magaan. Dapat maayos. Dapat kuntento. You don’t give up easily when you truly love. Pray for guidance and discernment. Pray for the right one. God will definitely bless you with the one you truly deserve. God bless!