Hi good evening. I just need an advice po. 1 year and 2 months na po akong single but I’m still madly and deeply in love with my ex boyfriend. Alam ko ako ang may kasalanan why he left me kasi may nagawa akong kasalanan sa kanya and sa family nya, I lied about my self. But I truly love him, mahal ko talaga sya ng sobra. Btw, he’s my 2nd boyfriend but he is my first sa lahat. And alam nya na sobrang mahal ko parin sya, and one thing is may nangyayare parin samin sometimes. May communication lang kami every 2-3 months and in every chats namin palagi syang nag aaya to have sex and pumapayag naman ako kasi in that way makakasama ko sya, makikita at mayayakap kahit alam ko na pagkababae ko yung nasisira.
I wish matulungan nyo ko. I know I should be ashamed of myself by doing such thing pero nagmamahal lang naman ako eh.
HE SAID: Hello Leah. Love is a double-edged sword that brings joy and pain. This is love defined by people. But God’s love is far greater as His mercy is endless. He is faithful even when we are unfaithful. Today, you are broken into many pieces and only God can bring you back together again. First, accept that this relationship is over. When there’s only one left fighting for it, it’s definitely over. Your ex is just making it worse. Seeing him doesn’t cure the heart totally. In fact, it makes the wounds deeper. Today, close that chapter and open a new one. One that is according to God’s plan. You will find it if you seek God, the author of life, with all your heart. Pour your heart out to Him. Pray for healing. He will hear you. We will pray for you. – Tito Homer
SHE SAID: Hi Leah. Having occasional sex with your ex will not bring him back. So stop it. Don’t you at least want to reserve yourself with your future husband? Para kahit papano may ipagmamalaki ka sa magiging asawa mo na kahit nagkamali ka, hindi ka naman naging pastime. Masakit pero yan ang ginagawa nya sayo. Libangan lang. So be brave enough to say no. Bigyan mo ng halaga ang sarili mo. You are precious in God’s eyes. He loves you. You are a temple of the Holy Spirit so take care of yourself. Ask God to help you. We will pray for you. God bless. – Tita Jinky