Friendship Over because of something that was said?
Many friendships end because of things that could have been discussed face-to-face, without involving other people.
Here are some tips you might find valuable. Read on:
He Said: Real talk. Straight talk. Wala nang paligoy-ligoy na pag-uusap. Yan ang dapat sa mga tunay na kaibigan. Hindi dapat nagtatago ng opinyon o feelings. Ang tanging pakay ay palakasin pa ang samahan. Kung may nais kang iparating sa kanya, ikaw na mismo ang magsabi ng harapan. Huwag sa chat o text o magpapahaging sa Facebook post. At lalung ‘wag mong ipagsasabi pa sa iba. Kung tunay mong mahal ang isang tao, ayaw mo siyang masaktan di ba? Ganun din kasi ang nais mo, baliktarin man ang sitwasyon. Maging totoo ka kung totoong kaibigan din ang nais mo.
She Said: I don’t know why some are happy talking about others and making their lives a regular topic in any conversation? Can you relate to this? Well hindi ka nag iisa. Don’t be like them. If there is something you want to tell a person, even if they are not really close to you, tell them straight. Constructive criticism often put people on the defensive mode, but they will soon realize that you mean well. Sad to say but real friends are rare nowadays. So if you have one, treasure them. I’m lucky to have a few in my life. To my true friends, I love you all and may God continue to bless you ☺