“So I’ve Learned That Love’s Not Possession. And I’ve Learned That Love Won’t Wait. Now I’ve Learned That Love Needs Expression.
But I Learned Too Late.” – Michael Jackson (“She’s Out of My Life”)
He Said: In our 25 years of marriage, plus the 4.5 years of going steady, I have learned that love is two-way — it’s giving-and-receiving. We are like a glass of water that needs to be filled in order to be poured out. You cannot give what you do not have. We cannot run on empty. It follows in all relationships. One cannot merely accept love while the other keeps on giving (and not receiving anything back). Relationships like this are bound to fail. Nakakapagod, eh.
What to do, guys? Be your authentic self. Bawal ang pa-impress at pa-plastik. Be more sensitive to others and avoid self-centeredness. Hindi umiikot sa atin ang mundo. Give love genuinely without expecting anything in return. But when you receive love, please give some back in return. Love is not love, till you give it away.
She Said: When a woman loves a man, it is almost always giving it all. That is why we want to be loved genuinely. But ladies please keep in mind, that obsession is a big turn off. So keep it balanced. You still need your own identity. Loving and being loved in return is the ultimate high in every relationship. Chill, because “All you need is pag-ibig ”
To-do this week: Express your love.
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