May time pa ba siya?
Sabi niya kasi sobrang busy daw siya.
Saan kaya siya sobrang busy?
Para ba yun sa future namin?
Just some of those questions you ask because you feel s/he does not have enough time for you. What to do:
1) Talk. Understanding each other’s real situation will help clear things.
2) Revisit your “rules” about giving time for each other. Because you can’t be together 24/7, and things change over time, agree on a day and time for a date, talk/chat time, when to text or not, and other rules. Follow them but give some time for adjustments.
3) Be honest. Whatever reason for not having as much time for your partner as before, tell it as it is. More work? More study time needed. Don’t edit. Just say it.
4) Be understanding. Listen to understand than to respond.
Remember that demanding what you want, regardless of your partner’s needs, usually ends up driving your partner away. Whatever’s the matter, fix it. We’re sure it’s worth it.
-Tito Homer & Tita Jinky
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